Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Men Who Love Filipinas: Some Tips on Dealing With Filipinas

The following tips are really based on the general characteristic of Filipinas, so it would be unwise to perceive your prospective Filipina girlfriend within the confines of this description.

1. We like strong men

If you don’t know yourself well enough to assert yourself or give in when it is appropriate, forget about even dating a Filipina. Although we generally like to make decisions, we don’t like it when all decisions are left to us without our men ever saying anything.

2. We don’t like men who are too frank

In terms of social communication, tact is very important to us. If you’re used to saying out loud what’s on your mind, now’s the time to learn some social graces. Some of the things that are a no-no to us: telling someone that he or she looks bad in his/her getup when there are other people around within earshot.

Similarly, you can’t be too frank with your Filipina girlfriend unless if you really want hurt her feelings. If there’s an uncomfortable subject that you really need to talk about, talk to her in a way that will not make her uncomfortable or feel defensive.

3. We like to go out to the malls

It’s typical for Filipina woman to want to go out to the mall for window shopping or go out on a shopping spree. We even have a word for it: “malling.” Malling is basically one of those we do to relax and unwind.

Read more: Asking A Filipina To Marry

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