PART I--Over Possessive and Over-Jealous Filipino Women Married to Foreign Nationals. What Could Go Wrong? TheForgotten Factor Numerous foreign nationals, including Westerners have looked to Asia, among other places, for gorgeous female pen pals, girlfriends, and the woman of their dreams. Some foreign nationals have been happily married with their Asian wives, although they may still have to deal with cultural differences. On the other hand, there are others who have married, with perhaps no fault of their own, some over-jealous Filipino women. Having to deal withpossessive Filipino women may be one of the elements that a few foreign nationals perhaps had forgotten to factor in while they were in search of that special someone from the Philippines to share their lives with. It is apparent that some Filipino women who, after being married to Westerners or other foreign nationals, have decided, consciously or unconsciously to be possessive or even over-possessive of their husbands. It seems that these women act that way as a means to control their foreigner national husbands. Bycontrol, I mean to somehow shield them away from not the elements but from the rest of the Philippine society. By definition, these women are manipulative. Some of these women would go the extra mile in their possessiveness as to raise their hands on their docile foreign national husbands as a way to further subdue them should the latter tell them something that may hurt their feelings,regardless of how truthful that something can be. Obviously, these married men cannot do much to repair the damage caused by their manipulative wives because they are quite old. google_ad_client="pub-2311940475806896";google_ad_slot="0098904308";google_ad_width=300;google_ad_height=250;Some of them feel that it is too late for them to terminate their marriage relationships and to start again their search of love from scratch. Indeed, time is not on their side, and a result, their abusive Filipino wives take advantage of that. In a domestic mishap, a manipulative Filipino wife could audaciously quarrel to the top of her lungs and even start a fight, which might lead to bodily harm to her husband. This behavior is reflects the control factor that these out-of-control women handily use to subdue their ailing and aging foreign husbands. It appears to me that some Filipino women are neither aware that it is not customary for a wife to raise her hands on her husband in the Western world or in the Philippines, nor do they give a hoot about it. This might be permissible in self-defense only in some countries. It is one of these possessive Filipino women's failings and shortcomings that should be addressed in order to prevent a dysfunctional relationship. Clearly, if these few Filipino wives do not refrain from being over-jealous and manipulative in their relationships with their husbands, then you could expect to see the weakening of their marital bonds which can lead to separation or even to divorce. If they were married in the Philippines, they could get an annulment of marriage, since there is no divorce law there. Would this be the wish or main goal of these possessive Filipino women married to foreign nationals? They are the only ones who might be able to answer this question. Husbands Viewed as Unique Possession As I understand it, there is nothing wrong for a married woman to feel a bit jealous if she realizes that her husband flirts or likes to flirt with another woman or other girls. In fact, such flirting behavior tends to lead to extra marital affairs, which in turn creates difficulties in most marriage relationships. But, an over-jealous woman would not wait for her husband to flirt with another girl or woman in order to accuse him of doing so. I personally know two few foreign nationals who are married to jealous Filipino wives. Their domestic life has been a roller-coaster like, and it is something you would not wish for any married couples anywhere. As far I can see it, these women�s intentions are clear: a) keep their husbands at home where nobody else would see them, except the domestic helper and the children, if any, b) go on vacations once in a while, as their budgets allow, where their husbands would have little or no opportunity to talk to no women or anybody else. I wonder who, as a man, would love to live his life with a manipulative wife who would do anything to control him, including his freedom. How would you feel if you were one of these married men? What would your reactions be when your Filipino over-jealous wife places so many restrictions on your life? PART II of this article will follow. Stay tuned.
Check out over 50,000 Filipinas. Send video messages. View sexy pics.
No comments:
Post a Comment